The Myth of the “High Energy” Child FINAL

The Myth of the “High Energy” Child FINAL

“High energy” is one of those phrases a lot of adults use as shorthand. It sounds neutral, even affectionate, but it often carries an undertone of concern. But before a child is ever described as “high energy,” there’s usually a trail of small, familiar moments we’ve...
How “Difficult Kids” Are Made FINAL

How “Difficult Kids” Are Made FINAL

There’s a line in that rarely makes it into parenting books, but it should: If a parent sees their child as difficult, this perception alone can shape that child’s behaviour more powerfully than the child’s actual temperament or actions. Not the child’s temperament, a...
Secure Kids Learn Differently

Secure Kids Learn Differently

We tend to think of learning as something that only happens in the brain. Reading, reasoning, and remembering all sound so intellectual and cognitive. But in truth, it often begins in the body. Before a child can absorb a lesson, they need to first feel safe enough to...
Who Are You Without the Job (or the Grade)?

Who Are You Without the Job (or the Grade)?

“So, what do you do?” This is a normal question to field when you meet anyone new.  It’s a social norm to lead with our job titles, as if our value is measured by a payslip or a LinkedIn headline. But to be fair, it certainly isn’t necessarily malicious. Asking “what...
The Lost Art of Doing Nothing

The Lost Art of Doing Nothing

A collective shiver is bound to go down a parent’s spine when their child sighs and announces, “I’m bored.” It can feel as if we’ve failed them—like a good parent should always have a clever distraction up their sleeve. The modern world doesn’t help, either. We live...
What Happens When You Stop Asking Permission?

What Happens When You Stop Asking Permission?

The suffocating pressure that hums in the background of modern parenting can be felt everywhere.  In the worried way people ask, “So what curriculum are you using?” or “What grade is your kid in now?” It’s in the awkward silence that follows when you say your child is...